Every person has an essential key to themselves. Usually this is the one we avoid the most. We often hear the phrase ‘I’ve worked so hard on myself and I still haven’t got what I want’. But this statement is misleading, as it only tells us about the stage we are at in the big process and...
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When you are faced with decision making, it is the end of doubt that gives birth to the decision. As long as we are in doubt, unsure about a choice, as long as we feel bad, we cannot make a mature and responsible decision. However, when we understand that the purpose of our choice – that is...
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How immune is my soul to what I’m being forced to do? How resistant am I to what comes from outside? …what others say, think, their opinion and will? How strong am I to protect my soul, myself from the thoughts, ideas, opinions and will of others? Do I dare to live who I am or will I allow others’...
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Take a piece of paper. Recall the moment when you got out of your bed this morning. Begin to write down the hours and minutes you spent with yourself, doing things you enjoyed, felt recharging, doing things you yourself wanted to do. Add up these hours and minutes. Today, tomorrow and the day after. Is it...
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Is it mirroring me? We often ask what message it has for us when our partner/another person is behaving in a humiliating, aggressive way: lying, cheating etc. and we regard them as a mirror. Am I like them because this is how they are mirroring me? The answer is: no. This is not how mirrors work. The mirror...
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