The masters of life

Becoming a master of life means being able to rise above the influences that affect us. These influences are many and varied and require a great deal of attention and discipline not to let them affect our lives and emotions.  We are dependent on the ideas of others, on community ideals, on expectations and even on our own ingrained patterns....

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We do not learn anymore

We do not learn anymore.  We are being tested on what we have learned.  We are taking a clarity test, an acceptance of reality test and a test on understanding that the world flows as it can, people feel and act as they can.  The question is how do you react to it? What do you let in?  What does...

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What do you need to get out of?

The situation you’re in. Out of what has become your reality and what you believe to be true. What do you need to get out of?  What is it that you are not even aware of, that is not yours? Is it a situation, a thought, an emotion?  Maybe what you thought was you is not even real? These seem to be the real...

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Happy new life, now

Why do many people think that just because the calendar changes from 21 to 22, everything will change? If you’ve had a sh#t year, you’ll have a sh#t year again, nothing will be able to help you – only you can help yourself.  “Everything will change in 2022″… no, it won’t. Nothing is going to change on the outside. However, you can make changes on the inside. Anytime. It’s only up...

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When you are in flow…

When you are in the energy of allowing, when you are in flow, you have no expectations and no fear. You don’t want to tell how things should be. When you have no expectations, then miracles beyond your imagination happen to you. It transcends everything. It’s so much better than you can ever imagine. Because if you imagine it, that’s completely limited....

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The processing of trauma

We really need to start processing all traumas at a community level.  Every welfare society has done this. I have spent and most of my recent years and I still am researching the impact of historical trauma on the individual. I am struck by the extraordinary impact they have on our individual existence, our relationships, our health....

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The past does not exist

Do you think you’ve had a trauma in the past? The PAST doesn’t really exist, but if you are a person in the NOW who is experiencing the suffering, then you are creating a memory for yourself.  The mind is an entity living in three dimensions for which time exists and it needs to cling to this idea...

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You are not the only one …

You’re not the only one with a terrible story. I have one too. She also has one. You’re not the only one disappointed. So am I. So is she.  You’re not the only one who’s suffering. So am I and so is he.  You’re not the only one who takes out your fears and anxieties on others. I did it too....

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There is only NOW

It is useless for me to say that there is only NOW, as long as you think that you are defined by your past. This assumes that you have to correct the past effects and that you have to ‘work’ in the present to have a good future. But how do you let go of this? Make a reminder for yourself, which can be a mantra (such...

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The reality is always our life …

The biggest problem with most modern spiritual and self-development teachings is that they drag you into the deep pit of illusions and make you addicted.  They make you believe that all is well as it is, that everything starts with you and they give you a false sense of security that mostly ignores reality.  The reality...

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